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Is the better opt for everybody's training.
The other things may, depending on the person, resonate a certain way.
But the gratitude concepts, those are like all telling.
And then I use that quite a bit with the high
school students that I work with in the community.
And it's funny because when you ask them questions about that, they're
really great as young people identifying what they are fortunate to have.
And I was really impressed by that.
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And I remember being at kind of a high point.
And then I remember speaking with the head
athletic trainer or physical therapist.
And I remember him calling me and it was late at night we were waiting for
his MRI results, which were going to determine what we're dealing with here.
And he called and he said, it's
got a meniscal tear and definitely done for the year.
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And so I remember, this is the part of the story I remember.
In this job, right, is a very lonely job.
And when you get the information that no one else in the world knows.
But you know once this information's out, it's changing, it's massive, right.
It changes the landscape of the entire industry.
But more importantly, if you've got a player who you've seen grow
from 19 years old to, he's never been injured, he's never missed a practice.
He's going through this crazy turn of events.
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And I remember, this is the funny part.
Does anyone know what Whataburger is?
>> [LAUGH] >> So I'll remember, I was driving
aimlessly, just thinking about how this is unfair,
moved on from beginning in '08 to this.
And we're having this incredible season and the guys, it's a great group of guys.
And I remember sitting in the Whataburger parking lot very late at night.
And, I'm not a big fast food consumer, but that night I was.
>> [LAUGH] >> And, like, okay,
where is the good thing that's coming from this?
Like, I remember thinking to myself, where, hunt the good stuff,
was kind of what I was like what I was thinking.
Like, okay, where's the benefit?
Where's the silver lining?
How are we going to, and then that's where I
really felt the concept of gratitude came back, like really into play.
So if you went back and you looked at my press conference following, or
I guess it must have been the announcement.
because then you've got to get there in front of everybody and
announce that this happened.
And it's brand new to them, but you've known about it for 12 hours and
I just remember really lacing into my comments this concept of gratitude.
We're very fortunate that we have a player like Russell Westbrook,
we're fortunate that he's going to be okay.
This is not a career ending injury.
We're fortunate that we have the health of our other players.
We are fortunate that we have a tremendous training staff.
We are fortunate, and I was kind of like over doing it probably on
messaging the gratitude because it was very important in my opinion,
for our fan base because it was such a new thing.
It's still a new, the Thunder is still new, professional sports is still new.
I think helping them understand that, here's the good things,
here's how to frame this.
It's not the last season in the history of the Thunder.
You're going to see Russell Westbrook play again,
that's the most important thing, his health.
His longterm health and well being.
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Yes things are, could be much more difficult without him.
Because he is a very important player to the team.
However, we're also an organization that started 3 and 29.
And this is part of our batch, this is what we were.
We are overcomers.
And we're going in to finish this series until next game.
And I had a conversation with Russell, about the fact that, listen,
I don't want to make you fell like I'm discounting you.
But I want to put the focus right now on the other guys,
and that we need to step up.
We can't look back that you're not there, we have to look forward.
And he totally understands that, the guy is super bright.
And, so the message was we're moving forward, he's going to be okay,
we have to take care and have a great practice today so
we can get ready to play the Rockets in the next game.
We ended up winning that series and then we got to the second round against
Memphis and we ended up, we won the first game.
But then we lost the next four in a row.
They were just too much for us to handle without Russell.
But to me that was a birthing of that, putting it into action.
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>> So when we brought the Resilience Training program in for
my whole division, We had 178 people trained.
And a lot of the folks are on the front lines, but behind the scenes.
And so the police certainly are on the front lines.
But some of the other folks are also speaking with people on the phone.
Our communications center, for example.
So they are also exposed to stressors.
And one of the things that we celebrate every day is we get a lot of thank yous.
And it's something that I think all of us in life should remember,
whether it's a waitress, whether it's service at a drive up window
to take that moment to thank somebody or send the note to their boss.
I get a lot of notes coming in from not only the Penn community but
we have hospitals.
So we have people who might have had a long-term illness with their loved one.
And they've been coming back and forth to Penn and have been helped.
So we celebrate those moments at roll calls.
We send out notes, we thank people for what they did.
And we want to make sure that, yes, negativity will occur,
there will be bad things that happen.
But at the end of the day we want to celebrate the positives,
the thank yous, the gratefulness of our community.
>> Hi, my name is Carolyn McIntyre.
I'm the HR director for business services at the University of Pennsylvania.
Our organization is 19 different departments providing customer service,
and mission critical services to the university community.
Everything from housing and dining, through to parking and transit,
Pence Children's Center, hotel oversight, purchasing, a myriad of businesses.
It's a very diverse workforce as well.
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The link with gratitude has really been something that I think has
since we've done the training been really been utmost in the mind of managers and
quite frankly staff as well.
Recognizing good work but being grateful for the environment that we work in,
for the fact that we're doing something that is bigger than just a job.
We're making a difference to students and to staff across campus.
We've worked hard to ensure that we keep ourselves mindful of gratitude.
In my own role, I appreciate the support that I get from my specialist colleagues
in central human resources, for example.
And I've tried to be mindful of being grateful to staff that I work with who
perhaps are the unseen sometimes, and recognizing that
everyone has a contribution to make to the success of our organization.
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You might have had a bad time at home, you've come to work.
Being recognized and experiencing gratitude and being
active in terms of that, from a manager's perspective, can just make the difference.
So one of the things that we've found really powerful is using our
monthly newsletter and monthly staff newsletter to call out great work.
And to call out perhaps, to call out great work that
connects with some of the university's mission as it relates to the community.
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So, recognizing staff who've done volunteer work
in the West Philadelphia Community, as that enhances our mission.
It's not required in the line of duty, but it certainly enhances that.
And being grateful for the fact that doing that with colleagues, and connecting in
a different way, as part of our welcome to business services orientation session.
We've really put an enhanced focus on connecting new staff members
to each other, and to the business of a sort of staff community.
Karen Reivich, Ph.D.Director of Resilience Training Services
